Choose Your Baby’s Gender Archives

When Do You Ovulate


When Do You Ovulate?

Knowing the Ovulating Symptoms, and Why It Matters…

If you are having difficulty getting pregnant, it can help to know when do you ovulate and how to spot the ovulating symptoms.

This way, you can take advantage of the best time each month to conceive the boy or girl baby you are longing for.

What is Ovulation?

To figure out when do you ovulate first you need a basic understanding of what is ovulation. Each month, an ovary releases one egg (occasionally, more than one) and it enters the Fallopian tube, ready for its short (4-inch) trip to your uterus, a process called ovulation.

The time from just before ovulation to just after (usually totalling only about 3 to 4 days) is when you are most likely to get pregnant each month.

For this to happen, healthy sperm must meet up with that egg, and one of the sperm must bond with the egg. But sperm live for only two or three days, while an egg will survive for only a day after ovulation, unless a baby is started (called fertilization).

One way of getting pregnant sooner is to time intercourse with ovulation, which is possible because there are several ways to tell the signs that you are about to ovulate, or ovulating symptoms. When you can recognize these symptoms, you will be able to predict fairly accurately when it will happen next.

Can you also Avoid Pregnancy by Knowing When do you Ovulate?

Some couples have also used predicting ovulation times to attempt to avoid pregnancy; you may have heard this practice referred to as the “Rhythm Method” of family planning or birth control that is condoned by some religious leaders and in some cultures.

However, simply not having sex around the time of ovulation is considered to be among the least effective ways of protecting from an unwanted pregnancy – it is famously unreliable.

It is a myth that wanting to get pregnant makes it more likely to happen (just as not wanting to get pregnant doesn’t help avoid it).

The good news is that it is also true that humans aren’t born with an ‘instinct’ for getting pregnant. For some couples, it may seem effortless. But the truth is that for most couples, getting pregnant isn’t that fast or easy.

There ARE effective changes you can make in your life that do make you more likely to conceive, detailed in Prince or Princess, a guide written by a midwife that tells you what to do to get pregnant AND to have the girl, or boy, you are hoping for.


Here Are the Ovulation Symptoms To Look For

There are signs or symptoms that can help you figure out when do you ovulate. If your periods are regular (or fairly regular), mark a calendar with the probable first day of your next period and count back 12 days to 16 days. These are the probable days of your next ovulation.

Another method that works is to notice your cervical mucus, which changes each month as levels of the hormone estrogen increase (it will become clear, slippery and slightly stretchy).

Normally, this mucus is the natural enemy of sperm; but during ovulation it helps sperm get where they want to go, up through the uterus, into the fallopian tubes for a date with your egg.

When Do You Ovulate? When Your Body Temperature Rises…

And here is a third change in your body that can tell you when do you ovulate: your basal body temperature will rise very slightly. You aren’t likely to notice this unless you use a basal body temperature (BBT) thermometer (inexpensive and available at pharmacies or chemists’ shops).

One warning about using a BBT thermometer – by the time your temperature ‘spikes,’ ovulation has already taken place and it may already be too late for fertilization to happen. If you choose to use a BBT thermometer, keep track of your temperature for a month or two so that you will be able to predict the two days just before it is about to spike in your next cycle.

Find When Do You Ovulate By Using a Predictor Kit

When Do You OvulateOvulation Predictor kits are widely available (at pharmacies and chemists’) without a prescription.

They can accurately predict ovulation, but usually only if you have a regular period cycle of 28 to 34 days.

These kits currently cost about $25 to $50, for 5 to 9 test strips, and are easy to use (similar to an at-home pregnancy test).

 Ovulating Symptoms – Can A Woman Tell The Exact Moment of Ovulation?

Yes, some women can. Researchers say about 20% of healthy adult women feel a twinge, a mild achiness or a few hours of pain or cramps signalling ovulation.

Possibly you have felt this signal that can tell you when do you ovulate so often, you don’t even notice it.

But, since it is only about 1 in 5 woman who experience this, it really isn’t an effective aid in knowing when you are most likely to get pregnant AND the exact timing to get the baby gender you really want.

However, let me tell you about a helpful book that does exactly that.

When You Really Want A Baby Boy…Or Girl

To get a fuller picture of how your body works, and what you must do to get pregnant AND to influence the gender of your child, read mother and midwife Alicia Pennington’s guide for parents trying to get pregnant, Prince or Princess – Plan Your Baby. There is also a review of this helpful book here.

Tracking when do you ovulate and using this information to your best advantage when you are trying to get pregnant is a method Alicia’s book teaches – and she also tells you how to use this method to get pregnant AND almost guarantee (with more than 80% accuracy) you will have either the boy, or the girl you really want!


Share

Sex Positions To Conceive Baby Boy


Sex Positions To Conceive Baby BOY

Getting Pregnant And Improving Your Chance of Conceiving a BOY

Sex Positions To Conceive Baby BoySex positions can make a difference in how soon you will get pregnant, and there are specific sex positions to conceive baby boy – while others are more likely to help you get pregnant with a girl.

This post is about why this is so, and what you need to know if you really want a baby boy.

Experts say that it is possible for most couples to get pregnant using any sexual position between a man and a woman, provided both are healthy and it is the right time of month for ovulation.

While there is no natural method that will absolutely guarantee that you will get pregnant – or that, when you do, it can only be with a boy, or with a girl if that is what you are trying for, there ARE positions that make pregnancy more likely.

There are also some positions that make having a boy more likely when you do get pregnant (while others are more likely to start a girl).

How does this work?

Any ripened egg (usually, one is released each month) could become either a boy, or a girl. This is because the gender selection is entirely determined by the man’s sperm.

Basically, there are two types of sperm – ones with an X or with a Y chromosome. Sperm carrying the Y chromosome are able to conceive a baby boy.

The sperm that carry this Y chromosome are small, quick and able to cover the distance to the egg very rapidly.

However, they have a big disadvantage. They live fast and die young. If they have to swim too far, they won’t be able to complete their journey to the egg successfully. Sex positions to conceive baby boy need to help the Y, or male sperm get to the egg as quickly as possible.

What Is Different About the Sex Positions to Conceive Baby Boy?

Because the Y sperm need a little extra help in reaching their destination quickly while they are still strong and healthy enough so one can unite with the egg, if you want a boy positions that allow the deepest penetration are essential.

The goal is to have the man orgasm as closely as possible to the top of your vagina (the neck of the cervix, just below your uterus).

This gets the sperm as close as possible to their destination, reducing the time that the sperm will need to spend on their journey to meet the egg.


Positions that allow for very deep penetration to occur include woman on top and either facing the man or facing away from him.

In these positions, the woman is sitting astride the man and she can control how deeply he penetrates her.

At the moment of orgasm, the woman should allow the man inside as deeply as possible.

There are a few other effective sex positions to conceive baby boy as well, but the important thing to remember is that the deeper the penetration at the moment of orgasm, the more likely you are to have a boy.

Sex Positions To Conceive Baby Boy – Timing Intercourse

Timing is crucial when considering sex positions to conceive baby boy if you want the Y sperm (to create a boy) to reach the egg before their rivals in this marathon race, the X sperm (for a girl) are able to reach the egg.

Y sperm are smaller and faster swimmers, but they don’t live as long as X sperm do. This means that you will need to schedule intercourse as closely as possible to the day that you ovulate.

The egg is ready and willing for a period of just a brief 24 hours or so, and this will give the Y sperm enough of a chance to reach the egg while they are still strong and healthy.

Sex Positions To Conceive Baby Boy – What About The Woman’s Orgasm?

If having a boy is what you want, in addition to sex positions to conceive baby boy it is important that the woman orgasm before the man. This changes the PH near the cervix, making it more hospitable to the Y sperm.

Interestingly enough, if a woman has her orgasm before the man, and a pregnancy is started, it is more likely to be a boy.

This happens because the secretions within the vagina that occur during an orgasm shift the balance of the PH to more alkaline, allowing the Y sperm the perfect environment they need to more easily swim towards the waiting egg.

There is also evidence that the uterine contractions caused when a woman orgasms help sperm move more quickly toward the fallopian tubes (the tiny tubes that the egg travels along on its path from the ovaries to the uterus).

Is Rest After Sex A Good Idea?

There’s no proof that not getting up to shower (or carry on with your day) right away after intercourse will help you get pregnant.

Sperm travel fairly rapidly- and remember, there are millions of them. So rest after lovemaking if you want to – but don’t worry about it if you don’t have the time.

Sex Positions To Conceive Baby Boy – Why Aren’t We Pregnant Yet?

Possibly, impatience is a big part of the problem. In addition to the baby-making pressure, you could be losing all the joy of intimacy. It could be that taking a break from trying to get pregnant could be good for both of you.

It could also be that there is more you could be doing (both in and out of bed), more small changes you can make, that will help you get naturally (and heath-fully) pregnant AND stay intimately connected (and happy) as a couple.

If you would like to know more about sex positions to conceive baby boy (or what you need to do specifically if trying for a girl) – including what you need to do to make natural conception and gender choice possible for you, see Prince or Princess, a practical and helpful guide to getting pregnant.

It is easy to read and gives you a step-by-step plan to get pregnant with the baby you really want, including sex positions to conceive baby boy.


Share

Sex Positions to Conceive Baby


Sex Positions To Conceive Baby Boy or Baby Girl

Trying To Get Pregnant? You Need To Know The Sex Positions To Conceive A Baby

Sex Positions to Conceive BabyWhile most sex positions can result in pregnancy, it helps (and can speed up the process) when you know the sex positions to conceive baby that are most likely to be successful.

And did you know that some positions are more likely to result in having a boy, while others favor getting pregnant with a girl?

It’s true. This post will tell you how and why.

While there is no way to absolutely guarantee which gender you will have when you get pregnant naturally, it IS possible to greatly increase your chance of getting the girl, or the boy, you really want.

The Basics of Sex Positions To Conceive Baby

Experts say that it is possible for most couples to get pregnant using any sexual position between a man and a woman, provided both are healthy and it is the right time of month for ovulation.

While there is no natural method that will absolutely guarantee that you will get pregnant – or that, when you do, it can only be with a boy, or with a girl if that is what you are trying for, there ARE positions that make pregnancy more likely. There are also some positions that making having a boy more likely when you do get pregnant; while others are more likely to start a girl.

How Do Sex Positions To Conceive Baby Gender Selection Work?

Any egg produced by the mother could become either a girl or boy fetus (the baby before birth). This is because the gender of your child is determined entirely by the man’s sperm.

Basically, there are two types – sperm carrying the Y chromosome will conceive a boy.

The sperm that carry this chromosome are small, quick and able to cover the distance to the egg very rapidly; however, they live fast and die young. If they have to swim too far, they won’t be able to complete their journey successfully before they expire. Sex positions to conceive baby boys are the ones that help the boy, or Y sperm get to the egg the fastest.

The X chromosome sperm are responsible for conceiving a baby girl. These sperm are much larger, and move slower. Their advantage is they live a lot longer and have more endurance when it comes to reaching the egg. Sex positions to conceive baby girls are the ones that help the girl, or X sperm have time to reach the egg after the Y sperm have expired.

Sex Positions to Conceive Baby Boy

Because the Y sperm need a little extra help in reaching their destination quickly while they are still strong and healthy enough so one can unite with the egg, if you want a boy positions that allow deep penetration are essential.

The goal is to have the man orgasm as closely as possible to the top of your vagina (the neck of the cervix, just below your uterus).

This will reduce the amount of time that the sperm will need to spend on their journey to meet the egg.


Positions that allow for this to occur include woman on top, either facing the man or facing away from him. In these positions, the woman is sitting astride the man and can control how deeply he penetrates her.

At the moment of orgasm, the woman should allow the man inside as deeply as possible.

There are a few other positions as well, but the important thing to remember is that the deeper the penetration at the moment of orgasm, the more likely you are to have a boy.

More About How To Have A Boy Baby

Sex Positions To Conceive Baby Girl

If you and your partner are trying for a girl, the best positions involve much shallower penetration. The X sperm are much more durable and need a little more time to reach the egg, allowing the Y sperm to die off before they get there. This means that the man should orgasm as far away from the neck of the cervix as possible.

Positions for shallow penetration include missionary or traditional (man on top), spooning and the lotus position where the couple wrap their legs around each other while sitting or while the man is standing.

These positions don’t allow for deep penetration, so a pregnancy started this way is more likely to be with a girl baby.

More About How To Have A Girl Baby

Sex Positions To Conceive Baby – What About A Woman’s Orgasm?

If you do want to have a boy, it is important that you choose sex positions to concieve baby that allow the woman to have an orgasm before the man. This changes the PH near the cervix, making it more hospitable to the Y sperm.

The opposite is true if you want to conceive a girl.

There is also evidence that the uterine contractions caused when a woman orgasms help sperm move more quickly toward the fallopian tubes (the tiny tubes that the egg travels along on its path from the ovaries to the uterus).

Should The Woman Rest After Sex?

There’s no proof that not getting up to shower (or carry on with your day) right away after intercourse will help you get pregnant.

Sperm travel fairly rapidly- and remember, there are millions of them. So rest after lovemaking if you want to – but don’t stress about it if you don’t have the time.

Sex Positions To Conceive Baby – We’re Trying So Hard To Conceive…

Possibly, that’s the problem. In addition to the baby-making stress, you could be losing all the joy of intimacy. It could be that taking a break from trying to get pregnant would be good for both of you.

It could also be that there is more you could be doing (both in and out of bed), more small changes you can make, that will help you get naturally (and heath-fully) pregnant.

If you would like to know more about sex positions to conceive baby boy, or a girl – including what you need to do to make natural conception and gender choice possible for you, see Prince or Princess, a practical and helpful guide to getting pregnant and the best book I have found on this topic.
 
It tells you exactly what sex positions to conceive baby when you want to get pregnant AND choose the baby’s gender and also tells you other methods to become pregnant quickly and naturally.


Share

Positions To Get Pregnant With A Boy Or Girl


Positions To Get Pregnant With A Boy Or Girl

Positions To Get PregnantMany couples ask what are the best positions to get pregnant, with a boy or a girl.

Experts say that it is possible for most couples to get pregnant using any sexual position between a man and a woman, provided both are healthy and it is the right time of month for ovulation.

While there is no natural method that will absolutely guarantee that you will get pregnant – or that, when you do, it can only be with a boy, or with a girl if that is what you are trying for, there ARE positions that make pregnancy more likely. There are also some positions that making having a boy more likely when you do get pregnant; while others are more likely to start a girl.

Positions To Get Pregnant – How does this work?

Any egg produced by the mother could become either a girl or boy fetus (the baby before birth). This is because the gender of your child is determined by the man’s sperm. Basically, there are two types – sperm carrying the Y chromosome will conceive a boy.

The sperm that carry this chromosome are small, quick and able to cover the distance to the egg very rapidly; however, they live fast and die young. If they have to swim too far, they won’t be able to complete their journey successfully.

The X chromosome sperm are responsible for conceiving a baby girl. These sperm are much larger, and move slower. Their advantage is they live a lot longer and have more endurance when it comes to reaching the egg.

Positions to Get Pregnant With A Boy

Because the Y sperm need a little extra help in reaching their destination quickly while they are still strong and healthy enough so one can unite with the egg, if you want a boy positions that allow deep penetration are essential.

The goal is to have the man orgasm as closely as possible to the top of your vagina (the neck of the cervix, just below your uterus). This reduces the amount of time that the sperm will need to spend on their journey to meet the egg.


Positions that allow for this to occur include woman on top as well, either facing the man or facing away from him. In these positions, the woman is sitting astride the man and can control how deeply he penetrates her.

At the moment of orgasm, the woman should allow the man inside as deeply as possible.

There are a few other positions as well, but the important thing to remember is that the deeper the penetration at the moment of orgasm, the more likely you are to have a boy.

More About How To Have A Boy Baby

Positions To Get Pregnant With A Girl

If you and your partner are trying for a girl, the best positions involve much shallower penetration. The X sperm are much more durable and need a little more time to reach the egg, allowing the Y sperm to die off before they get there. This means that the man should orgasm as far away from the neck of the cervix as possible.

Positions for shallow penetration include missionary or traditional (man on top), spooning and the lotus position where the couple wrap their legs around each other while sitting or while the man is standing.

These positions don’t allow for deep penetration, so a pregnancy started this way is more likely to be with a girl baby.

More About How To Have A Girl Baby

Positions To Get Pregnant – What About The Woman’s Orgasm?

If you do want to have a boy, it is important that the woman orgasm before the man. This changes the PH near the cervix, making it more hospitable to the Y sperm.

The opposite is true if you want to conceive a girl.

There is also evidence that the uterine contractions caused when a woman orgasms help sperm move more quickly toward the fallopian tubes (the tiny tubes that the egg travels along on its path from the ovaries to the uterus).

Positions To Get Pregnant – Should I Rest After Sex?

There’s no proof that not getting up to shower (or carry on with your day) right away after intercourse will help you get pregnant.

Sperm travel fairly rapidly- and remember, there are millions of them. So rest after lovemaking if you want to – but don’t stress about it if you don’t have the time.

Positions To Get Pregnant – We’re Trying So Hard To Conceive…

Possibly, that’s the problem. In addition to the baby-making pressure, you could be losing all the joy of intimacy. It could be that taking a break from trying to get pregnant could be good for both of you.

It could also be that there is more you could be doing (both in and out of bed), more small changes you can make, that will help you get naturally (and heath-fully) pregnant.

If you would like to know more about positions to get pregnant – with a boy, or a girl – including what you need to do to make natural conception and gender choice possible for you, see Prince or Princess, a practical and helpful guide to getting pregnant and the best book I have found on this topic.


Share

What to Eat to Get Pregnant


What To Eat To Get Pregnant…

What to Eat to Get Pregnant

With A Boy…Or With A Girl

What you eat in the years before you become pregnant can have a big effect on the health of your child as well as your own health; what you eat when you get pregnant also matters for gender selection.

If you are ill, underweight, overweight, or taking prescription medication, or are over age 35, it may be harder to get pregnant.

But we’ll assume you’ve already discussed any of these issues that are relevant for you with your healthcare provider and are eating healthy, getting enough exercise and sleep and are doing all you can for a healthy pregnancy to come.

You may be surprised to learn there is still more you can do to naturally increase your chances of getting pregnant AND of getting pregnant with the gender – either boy or girl – you most desire.

There are no guarantees (either that you will soon be pregnant or will have the baby gender of choice) – but MOST couples do become pregnant, and MOST do get the child they wished for, using natural methods (read the statistics here).

This post is what you need to eat for that to happen. I’ll assume you’ve already cut out the bad (sugary, fatty, full-of-preservatives) stuff and are eating plenty of healthy foods (lean meats, healthy fish, vegetables and fruits that are organically-grown).

If not, and you want some guidelines on diet to get pregnant, here is a good eating/exercise plan for pregnant mothers that is just as sensible when you’re trying to get pregnant; or you may prefer this one, designed by a mother and top nutritionist and highly-praised by thousands of mothers in North America.

How What You Eat Determines The Gender Of Your Future Child

The foods that you eat can affect the gender of your child for a variety of different reasons. One is that your body’s PH needs to be at a certain level at the time of ovulation and fertilisation, and this differs for getting pregnant with a boy or getting pregnant with a girl.


The sperm responsible for conceiving a boy carry the Y chromosome. They are small, agile and must reach their destination quickly before they expire (as almost all do long before reaching the egg). They need an alkaline environment to reach the egg properly.

The sperm responsible for conceiving a girl carry the X chromosome. They are much larger, more durable and though they may take longer to reach an egg, they have a greater chance of living long enough to succeed. They prosper in a slightly more acidic environment.

What to Eat To Get Pregnant With A Boy

Every present and future mother needs a healthy and balanced diet (which you get with the two eating plans mentioned above) to boost her health and vitality while also making sure she doesn’t gain a lot of baby fat during pregnancy.

In addition, if you want a boy, adding foods to your daily plan that contain potassium and sodium are important.

They are non-acidic by nature and will boost your alkalinity, which is necessary to help the Y sperm succeed. The recommended foods include bananas, sweet corn, lean red meats, and chocolate.

To conceive a boy, you do need more sodium (salt), but not a lot more. Look here for specific information.

What to Eat To Get Pregnant With A Girl

In order to have a girl, you need to focus on foods that will boost acidity in your body just before and during ovulation until sperm and egg unite. They include foods that are rich in magnesium and calcium. Broccoli is the perfect example of a food that contains high levels of both.

Other foods you should eat include grapefruit, dairy products, some fish (be cautious about avoiding fish with medium- to higher -mercury levels) and leafy green vegetables.

More About What To Eat To Get Pregnant & Natural Baby Gender Selection

The best book I have found on what to eat to get pregnant – and everything else you can do to naturally select the gender of your baby – is by former midwife and mother Alicia Pennington. It’s called Prince or Princess Guide.

Read our Prince or Princess Review here.


Share

When You Can Get Pregnant


Do You Know When You Can Get Pregnant?

 

Best Times to Conceive

When can you get pregnant, and when is your next best chance to begin the baby you and your partner are trying for?

As you may already know, there are several choices you can make to increase your chance of getting pregnant naturally and also influencing whether your child will be a boy or a girl.

This includes the choices you make about what you eat, lovemaking positions and understanding your monthly cycle.

When You Can Get Pregnant – Know Your Cycle

During your cycle, there are only 4 to 5 days each month when pregnancy is possible. These fertile days are just before until just after ovulation.

Some couples opt to have intercourse every other day when trying for a baby (and more frequently is also OK), while others want to know when ovulation is happening. There are several ways to do this.


If your menstrual cycle usually is 28 days, this will make day 14 the day of ovulation and your best chance day to become pregnant (day 1 would be the first day that your last period began). If your average cycle is 30 days, day 16 is the day of ovulation. Or if it is usually 32 days for you, the ‘magic’ day is day 18.

When You Can Get Pregnant – Body Temperature

Body temperature rises just slightly – by as little as a tenth of one degree up to a full degree – at the time of ovulation.

By tracking your basal body temperature for a cycle, you will be able to pinpoint the right day, and this is easy to do at home with an inexpensive basal body thermometer from the pharmacy (chemist). Use it right after you wake each morning.

When You Can Get Pregnant – Other Methods

There are also now ovulation sensors (they actually measure a hormone that is present just before ovulation) that can predict when you will ovulate a couple of days or so in advance, but these cost a bit more than the basal thermometers (expect to pay about $30 to $45 for nine uses).

You won’t need any equipment at all to monitor your cervical mucus.

Ovulation causes a change in the appearance and consistency of cervical mucus, the clear vaginal liquid. Most of the time, it is a natural anti-sperm agent; but at ovulation it becomes thinner, slippery and the consistency of egg white and actually helps sperm reach the egg.

When You Can Get Pregnant

Learn as much as possible about fertility, getting pregnant, pregnancy and having a healthy baby.

Alicia Pennington is a former midwife and now a baby gender selection coach who has written Prince or Princess, an e-book about natural ways to get pregnant with the baby boy or baby girl you really want and everything you can do to increase your chances for success.

She developed her knowledge and methods in more than 12 years working with new parents, and then used these methods herself to get the daughter, and then a son, she and her partner wanted.

“We really wanted a girl first; then a boy,” she says. “And that’s exactly what we got!”

When You Can Get Pregnant – When To Make Love To Make A Baby Girl…Or Boy

So, now that you’ve narrowed it down to five days of the month where you are fertile, it’s time to figure out how to time lovemaking to choose the gender of your child.

Let’s consider the differences in sperm that carry the chromosomes that decide gender.

A sperm carrying the Y chromosome will result in a boy if it successfully fertilizes the egg.

A sperm carrying the X chromosome will result in a girl.

Think of Y sperm as the sprinters, while X sperm are the marathon runners.

Y sperm are very small, but also very quick and agile. The main downside is that they don’t live very long.

X sperm are bigger and much slower, but they have the advantage of living a lot longer.

To have a boy, you will need to allow the Y sperm the time they need to reach the egg as quickly as possible. This means sex on the day that you ovulate. The Y sperm won’t live much longer than that 24-hour period that the egg is viable and you need to give them that chance to meet the egg before they expire.

If you’re trying for a girl, you should time intercourse to two to three days before ovulation. During this time, the Y sperm will have died out, leaving the slower but more hardy X sperm still in the race. This increases the chances that you will have a girl.

Find out more about how you can naturally select your child’s gender.


Share

How Do I Get Pregnant Quickly?


How Do I Get Pregnant Quickly?

Get Pregnant Quickly

Help Me Get Pregnant Faster!

Once you decide the time is right to start – or add to – your family, you may wonder why it just isn’t happening, and what you can do about it.

So this post is about giving you some answers to that question – How do I get pregnant quickly – or soon?

Or you may wish to skip directly to the info about natural and safe methods to get pregnant that work for most couples.


Usually, just by making small changes in diet, in their lovemaking to get pregnant, or by knowing when the best times are to get pregnant couples do have the ability to influence the gender of their baby.

Get Pregnant Quickly – How Long Does It Take To Get Pregnant?

No one can say with certainty exactly how long it will take you to get pregnant. However, it IS possible to say how many couples do get pregnant and how quickly – assuming both are healthy and under age 35. (It will be a bit longer than this if you are older, or if one or both of you smoke, or if there is a condition that affects your fertility).

If it seems like your sisters or girlfriends get pregnant ‘easily,’ the truth is – yes, many women do.

Of healthy, under-35 couples trying to get pregnant quickly, this is how long it takes to conceive:

  • About one third are pregnant within a month.
  • Almost 3 of every 5 are pregnant within three months
  • About 4 of every 5 couples are pregnant naturally within 6 months.
  • About 1 in 10 couples will try for a year or more without success.

Get Pregnant Quickly – What Is The Ideal Age to Get Pregnant?

The best age for a woman to be pregnant may be years before she and her partner are ‘ready’ in terms of careers, finances, having a home and feeling ready to be parents.

A woman’s body is most fertile at age 24; each year after age 35 makes it a bit harder to get pregnant (though it is still possible for most women into their early 40s).
Male fertility peaks even earlier (late teens) and also declines, but more gradually, usually until around age 50, though there are many men who become fathers in mid-life and beyond. 

Get Pregnant Quickly – What to Do To Get Pregnant Faster

1. Get your body ready for pregnancy – start eating healthy and be sure you are fit and a healthy weight. Stop any unhealthy habits (cut out anything more than the occasional glass of wine; smoking; skipping meals; not getting enough rest and sleep)

2. Get your life ready for pregnancy – make a budget for maternity leave and the first year of parenthood, make career decisions, deal with stress

3. Understand how your body works, particularly ovulation

4. Consult a midwife or ‘how to get pregnant’ expert, either locally or read Alicia Pennington’s excellent guide to getting pregnant naturally and also choosing the gender of your baby called Prince or Princess – Plan My Baby.

5. For many couples, the answer to “How do I get pregnant quickly?” is simply that they relaxed and allowed themselves to enjoy this special time – when you let go of the baby-making pressure, magic CAN happen.

Natural Ways to Get Pregnant Quickly

Most of us grow up thinking baby-making is pretty simple (when we’re younger, we usually give more attention to how not to get pregnant) and, for some couples, it can be remarkably easy to get pregnant, almost exactly when they want to. They decide they’re ready to be parents (or have another baby) and, within just a few months, they are.

For others, it isn’t that fast, or that simple, but the tips in this post can help, and you can find more natural, safe ways to make small changes, including what you eat, how you have sex (and when) and just paying closer attention to your monthly cycle that can help you get pregnant quickly in Prince or Princess.

That’s a book by midwife Alicia Pennington, a practical how-to you can read in a couple of hours and put to use tonight! As she teaches, it IS simple, once you have some basic information, and a plan to get pregnant quickly with the boy, or the girl, you really want.

CLICK HERE to Get Pregnant With A Boy…Or A Girl…Maybe Tonight?


Share

How to Have a Girl


How to Have A Girl Baby

how to have a girl

What To Do To Conceive A Girl

If you are looking for how to have a girl baby, the only way that gives you an absolute guarantee that the baby you are about to conceive will be a girl is artificial insemination. Wishing for a BOY? Please look here…

But many couples find this medically-advanced method frustrating, difficult, stressful and invasive as well as very expensive (it can cost many thousands of dollars per attempt, and is not always successful).

Fortunately, if you have been trying to have a child, there are natural ways to conceive and be fairly sure that you will have the boy, or girl that you dream of adding to your family.

This post gives you an overview of some of the gentle, natural ways to conceive and also increase the odds that your child is a girl.

For the full details, read more about the all-natural baby-making how-to guide by midwife, baby gender coach and mother Alicia Pennington.

How to Have A Girl – Timing Intercourse

The sperm that are responsible for having a girl carry the X chromosome. These sperm are slower than their Y counterparts and require a few different techniques if you want to ensure that they successfully reach the egg to result in a girl (while their competitors, the Y sperm, do not).


In order to give the X sperm the chance to reach the egg, you must time intercourse so that by the time you ovulate, the Y sperm (which swim faster but die sooner) have already expired.

This means that it is ideal to have intercourse about 48 to 72 hours (or two to three days) before you ovulate. Sperm can remain alive in a woman’s body for a maximum of five days and X sperm are the ones that live the longest.

By the time the egg leaves your ovary, the only ones left will most likely be the sperm that carry the baby girl X chromosome.

How to Have A Girl – What Is The Best Position To Conceive A Girl?

While all positions can help you get pregnant, in order to give the X sperm the advantage they need to outlast the Y sperm sprinters, sexual positions that offer shallow penetration are ideal when you want a girl.

Any position where the man does not orgasm deep within the vagina will work.

How to Have A Girl – Raise Your pH

pH is the acid-base balance in our bodies. Acids reduce pH, while bases make your body more alkaline, increasing the pH. Normal pH is 7.4, which is what your body is constantly trying to maintain.

The main source of acids are the animal-based foods (meats, chicken, dairy) we eat. The main source of bases (alkaline foods) are fruits and vegetables.

A vagina that is slightly acidic (its usual state for most of the month) is a hostile environment for Y sperm, so what you need is a vagina that remains slightly acidic at the time that sperm are racing toward your egg, giving the girl-making X sperm a better chance (since they take longer to make the journey).

This is also another reason why eating more healthy protein (lean meats, chicken or turkey, and dairy) helps when you’re trying for a girl.

Also, though no one knows quite why, women who eat breakfast every morning have a much higher change of having a boy, so you might also need to skip breakfast for a while, and also avoid salty foods.

How to Have A Girl – What You Eat Makes A Difference!

In addition to eating well to get ready for a healthy pregnancy, you will want to eat more foods that are slightly acidic. This helps create the best chance for X sperm to reach the egg successfully and conceive a girl baby.

You also need to be sure to eat plenty of vegetables that are high in magnesium and calcium, such as artichokes, kale, peas, beets, sweet potatoes, celery, almonds and asperagus.

Also include these:

  • Broccoli – Choose the darkest green broccoli available and eat the tops and stems, either well-washed and raw or steamed.
  • Figs – Have calcium, magnesium, and Vitamin C. Eat them as a snack, or sliced in a salad.
  • Fish – Be sure to choose the farmed or healthiest wild (low-mercury) varieties.
  • Dairy Products – Low fat Greek yogurt, sweetened with honey and low-fat milk are good choices.

How to Have A Girl – What Else Can Help You Conceive A Girl?

While there is no proof of this, whether or not a woman orgasms before the man does appear to make a difference in their baby’s gender. This is due to the fact that once you orgasm, the PH inside the vagina changes due to secretions.

Before an orgasm, the environment within the vagina and around the cervix is acidic, which is perfect for sperm carrying the X chromosome. Once you do orgasm, the secretions change the PH to more alkaline in nature, allowing the Y sperm the chance to get through.

For this reason, midwife and baby gender coach Alicia Pennington recommends that a woman not orgasm first when trying for a girl.

Her Prince or Princess Guide (read our Prince or Princess review here) tells you everything you need to know about what to do (and when) to get pregnant naturally and, if it is your desire, how to have a girl.


Share

How to Have A Boy


How To Have A Boy Baby

how to have a boy

Conceive A Boy Naturally

Are you hoping to have a boy baby? This post is all about how to have a boy naturally. Trying for A Baby Girl? Look Here…

The only way that gives you an absolute guarantee that the baby you are about to conceive will be the boy you are trying for is artificial insemination, usually combined with taking fertility drugs.

But many couples reject this medically-advanced method because it is anything but natural and can be frustrating, difficult, stressful and invasive as well as very expensive (it can cost many thousands of dollars per attempt, and is not always successful).

Fortunately, if you have been trying to get pregnant, there are natural ways to conceive and be fairly sure that you will have the boy, (or girl) that you dream of adding to your family.

Perhaps you’ve been trying for a while now, but I urge you not to give up.


This post gives you an overview of some of the gentle, natural ways to conceive and also increase the odds that when you do, your child will be a boy.

For the full details, read more about the all-natural baby-making how-to guide by midwife, baby gender coach and mother Alicia Pennington. She has helped thousands of families have the boy, or girl, they long for and it could be she can help your family, too.

How To Have A Boy – Timing Intercourse

Timing is crucial if you want the Y sperm (to create a boy) to reach the egg before the X sperm (for a girl) do.

Y sperm are smaller and faster swimmers, but they don’t live as long as X sperm do. This means that you will need to schedule intercourse as closely as possible to the day that you ovulate.

The egg is viable for a period of 24 hours, and this will give the Y sperm enough of a chance to reach the egg while they are still strong and healthy.

How To Have A Boy – The Best Position To Conceive A Boy

Any position for intercourse can lead to pregnancy, but some are more likely to result in you having a boy because it can affect how quickly the Y sperm will reach the egg.

It is important to use a position that will allow for deep penetration and the man must orgasm as closely to the neck of the cervix as possible. The best position for this is woman on top.

Interestingly enough, if a woman has her orgasm before the man, and a pregnancy is started, it is more likely they will have a boy. This happens because the secretions within the vagina that occur during an orgasm shift the balance of the PH to more alkaline, allowing the Y sperm the perfect environment they need to more easily swim towards the waiting egg.

How To Have A Boy – What You Eat Matters!

Foods that are rich in potassium and sodium are ideal if you are trying to have a boy.

So, in addition to eating healthy (and cutting out fatty foods, junk food and alcoholic drinks both before and during pregnancy) you will want to eat more of these:

  • Lean Red Meat, lobster
  • Bananas, plums, melon
  • Peaches, apples, grapes, apricots, pears, strawberries
  • Avocados, carrots, bell peppers
  • Salted nuts, especially hazelnuts
  • Chocolate

How to Have A Boy – Lower Your pH

pH is the acid-base balance in our bodies. Acids reduce pH, while bases make your body more alkaline, increasing the pH. Normal pH is 7.4, which is what your body is constantly trying to maintain.

The main source of acids are the animal-based foods (meats, chicken, dairy) we eat. The main source of bases (alkaline foods) are fruits and vegetables.

A vagina that is slightly acidic is a hostile environment for Y sperm, so what you need is a vagina that is slightly alkaline at the time that Y sperm are racing toward your egg. One way to do this is for the woman to have an orgasm, because this releases fluids that raise pH, briefly, and that supports Y sperm and sends them on their way to the egg.

This is also another reason why eating more fruits and vegetables helps when you’re trying for a boy.

Also, though no one knows quite why, women who eat breakfast every morning have a much higher change of having a boy.

How To Have A Boy – What Else Can Help You Have A Boy?

What else you can do to influence the gender of your child and get a boy? Midwife and baby gender coach Alicia Pennington has written a practical guide to this subject that gives you a step-by-step make-a-baby-boy plan.

Her Prince or Princess Guide tells you everything you need to know about what to do (and when) to get pregnant naturally and, if it is your desire, each step to take in how to have a boy in the healthiest, most natural way.


Share

Can’t Get Pregnant – Help Me to Get Pregnant


Help Me To Get Pregnant

What To Do If You Can’t Get Pregnant

It all seems so easy for some couples, doesn’t it?

If you’ve been trying for a while, but still can’t get pregnant, it can be especially frustrating if everyone you know is expecting – or they already have a child. Or more than one.

The road to conception can seem to be nothing but smooth for some couples, while for others (like you) the baby room is ready, and so are you…but still you don’t get pregnant.

And the clock is ticking…

If you are trying to get pregnant, here are a few things to keep in mind:

Help Me to Get Pregnant – Understand Your Cycle

Each woman’s body has its own rhythm, and every cycle is different. Before you conceive, take a few months to chart your cycle from beginning to end. Keep track of the first day of your period and when you ovulate.

This can help you determine when you are most fertile and when you should be having sex with your partner. It may not seem very romantic to schedule lovemaking like it was a meeting at the office, but if you do want to conceive, you have to be able to take advantage of that very brief window of opportunity when it arrives each month. To do this, you need to…

Help Me to Get Pregnant – Predict Your Next Ovulation

In order to find that short window of opportunity, you have to know when you ovulate. There is a period of three-to-five days within each cycle that you are at your most fertile. Once you know when this occurs and how to predict when it will happen next, you can greatly increase the likelihood of fertilization, the moment when you become pregnant.

While you can become pregnant at any time during those three-to-five days, it is best to try to time your ovulation and intercourse as closely as possible.

Help Me to Get Pregnant – Are You Really Ready To Be Pregnant?

Have you done everything possible to get healthy over the past year?

In order to be at your most fertile, you need to take good care of yourself. This means cutting out junk food, drinking and recreational drugs (if you indulge) and being fit and at a healthy weight.


Do you get enough rest and sleep? Do you have stress fairly well under control in your life?

Start taking prenatal vitamins as soon as possible before becoming pregnant and have a thorough medical examination by your caregiver. If you have noticed any irregularities with your monthly cycles, talk to her or him about it now.

Help Me to Get Pregnant – Get Your Ducks In A Row…

Have you and your partner considered what you’ll do to meet the challenges of parenthood? For example, what about child care? Are you ready for reduced income during your maternity leave? Who will stay home with a sick infant or child?

help me to get pregnantKnowing you’re fully prepared for parenthood can reduce some of your stress now, and for some couples, reducing stress is (almost) all it takes for them to find they are pregnant.

However, if you have been trying for several months, there is more you can do, both to get pregnant naturally AND to make it more likely that you have a boy…or, a girl.

The best guide I have found on this topic is Alicia Pennington’s book Prince or Princess – Plan My Baby, which is reviewed here. Alicia is a former midwife, now a get-pregnant coach who thoroughly-researched methods to get pregnant naturally with the baby gender you prefer, and then used her methods successfully to get her own babies. Since then, thousands of couples have used these methods with equal success.

Although it can take a healthy couple a year to conceive naturally, by paying attention to this advice, you can increase your chances of becoming pregnant in less time.

Remember, if you don’t conceive right away, don’t get disheartened. Just keep trying and barring any fertility issues you should be able to conceive a happy and healthy baby.


Share
 Page 1 of 2  1  2 »